On this Father’s Day, I’m reflecting on my good fortune in meeting this man all those years ago. When I chose him to be my guy, I knew that in addition to being a man of great integrity, intelligence, compassion, and all-around goodness, he would be an exceptional father. Watching him interact with our kids in all of life’s daily, small moments brings me such delight. Even though there are all kinds of demands on Dr. Andy’s time and attention, Daddy Andy’s primary priority has always been the kids and me.
Andy brings the teaching. As one might expect in our home, impromptu writing lessons at the dining table frequently occur. Soon after they could read, Andy began dissecting sentences, and later, paragraphs, with the kids. He instilled in them an interest in writing. That interest developed into a passion. As a result, both our bookend kids call themselves writers.
Andy brings the energy. He’s up for practically anything and loves new adventures. Many locals have witnessed his daily walks with Jukie. They leave the house each day, often with no destination in mind and return hours and miles later with tales of new friends made and old friends encountered. One can measure their stamina in the shoes I have to replace every couple months. “Better shoes than cars,” Andy says.
Andy brings the laughter. He can’t sit anonymously in a dark theater without his distinctive, unrestrained, and ultimately contagious howl giving away his presence. Even though we’re all used to seeing a microphone in Andy’s hand, he rarely needs one because his voice projects. When our kids were little, I regularly had to remind Andy to quiet his natural stage voice during nap time. But the laugh — he can’t help that. We can hear it from every corner of the house. And no matter what I’m doing, I love that sound.
Andy brings the care. He wakes up every morning thinking, and sometimes asking, what he can do to improve our lives. We’re on his mind all day long. We feel and appreciate his love and devotion. And I am profoundly grateful for the wisdom to have chosen Andy to be my children’s dad.
